1-You can pick a topic, but before you start, send it to Leesa (  to make sure it adheres to our style and hasn’t been done before.  Past topics include: “I Dated a Conspiracy Theorist”, “Dating Outside Your Race” and “I Dated a Celeb.” Topics should be broad-ish so other people in the chat can relate. For example, “I Dated A Guy Who Only Wore Black Pants Every Sunday” would not fly as a topic. 

2-The confession should read like a story—with a beginning, middle and end. Most are about bad dates, but that’s not a requirement. They do have to be about dating or relationships. 

3-The confession should be between 50-55 lines long.  Each line of the confession MUST have three things:

        a- It has to be 160 characters or less. While Twitter now allows 280 characters per tweet, we feel that will be too              cumbersome for people to read in this format. We strongly urge you to write your confessions in Microsoft Word              which has a character count tool so you can check each line. 

        b- It must start out with a number.

        c- It must end with the hashtag #BlerdDating . 

And it should be saved as a Word doc.  Here’s an example of part of a confession—> 

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4-When you’re done writing and formatting, send it to Leesa——so she can double-check the formatting. 




1-Each line of your confession must have a meme attached. We normally get all of our memes at

2-Once at, search for appropriate memes (versus seeing what just shows up on the page).  You don't have to do a literal search. For example, if a line of your confession was: 5-He walked in the door looking like a fool. #BlerdDating   You might search for "hell no" instead of searching for "walking in door" and see what comes up.

3-The memes should be a sort of punctuation to the line of the confession.  For example, if the fifth line of your confession is: 5-I hadn’t dated for a long time and it showed. #BlerdDating, you might choose this meme to attach—>


4-To assemble the memes, create a FOLDER on your laptop or desktop and save all the memes into it.

5- To save the memes into your desktop folder, simply CLICK directly on the meme. It should pull up a DOWNLOAD page.  Click DOWNLOAD (see example below) 



and it will bring up a second download page (see below.) On that page, you'll see multiple options.  Save the meme as a social media file--just click DOWNLOAD next to the bar that says SOCIAL.


You will be able to save directly to your folder. If you're not, download it, make sure it's on your desktop and drag it into the folder.  If it gives you the option to save it as the smallest version of itself, take that, using the same process.

6-NAMING THE MEME. After you download a meme to a folder, it MUST be named. Each meme must have a number that corresponds with the line number of your confession. For example, if the fifth line of your confession is: "5-I hadn’t dated for a long time and it showed. #BlerdDating" , and you chose the meme where she's saying "crickets",  your meme would be named: 5-crickets.gif.  Like this--->


The number 5 in the above example represents the fifth line of your confession. So if the the first line of your confession was "1 - This is a story I've never told before. To anyone. #BlerdDating"  , you would name the meme you're using "1-mymeme.gif"  The numbering of the memes is what's important. Not the name part. 

7-Be as creative as you like and remember to have fun with it.  REMEMBER NO X-RATED WRITING OR MEMES ALLOWED. 


1-We suggest live-tweeting from Tweetdeck, which is a free app and part of Twitter. You must live-tweet from a desktop or laptop.  If you don't have Tweetdeck installed, go into our FAQ which tells you how to install it.  

2-Leesa (@chilltownTV) will DM you to let you know when to start. Normally, confessions start around 9:05pm EST. It is crucial you are prompt. 

3- LIVE-TWEETING INSTRUCTIONS:  IMPORTANT:  Click on the blue quill on the left side of Tweetdeck to open the NEW TWEET window 


Once inside your New Tweet window, click on the Stay Open button on the bottom.

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Copy the first line of your confession from your Word Doc and paste it in the Tweet window (where it says What's happening?) Then attach the first meme from your confession by clicking on the Add Images or video button. (make sure you attach the matching meme). 


Click the blue Tweet button.  You've sent the first line of your confession and its accompanying meme!  Continue with the rest of the tweets/memes from your confession in the same fashion (copy/paste/attach/tweet.) Go straight down the line until you've finished. 

4-There will be a TON of comments happening while you’re live-tweeting. DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO THEM UNTIL AFTER YOU’RE DONE LIVE-TWEETING YOUR ENTIRE CONFESSION. Instead, just focus on live-tweeting and finishing your confession.

5-You should be done no later than 9:30pm EST.  This means you should be doing this QUICKLY. We suggest doing a mini-trial run to get used to it.

6-The whole process of live-tweeting is exhilarating--some people have even likened it to being on stage. Have fun!! 


Any questions, ask Leesa at